We’ve all had moments where our words or actions might’ve rubbed someone the wrong way—but how rude are you, really? This quick, lighthearted quiz will help you gauge your everyday etiquette and spark some self-reflection. Ready to find out?
The Rudeness Reality Check
Answer these five questions honestly. Choose the option that best fits your usual behavior!
- You’re in a rush when someone steps in front of you in line. Do you…
A) Politely ask them to move back.
B) Sigh loudly and glare.
C) Blurt out, “Excuse me?! Were you raised in a barn?” - A friend sends a text asking for advice. You’re busy, so you…
A) Reply later with a thoughtful message.
B) Read it and ignore them until you have time.
C) Text back, “Can’t you figure this out yourself?” - At a party, someone shares an opinion you strongly disagree with. You…
A) Nod politely and change the subject.
B) Interrupt with a sarcastic comment.
C) Publicly debate them until they shut up. - Your coworker chews loudly while working nearby. You…
A) Casually mention it’s distracting.
B) Complain to others about their habits.
C) Slam your hand on their desk and yell, “Chew quietly!” - Online, you spot a typo in someone’s post. You…
A) Ignore it—they’re human!
B) Comment, “Grammar 101, please.”
C) Share the post publicly with mocking edits.
Scoring Your Sass
- Mostly A: 🌟 The Diplomat! You’re refreshingly polite. Keep leading by example!
- Mostly B: 😬 The Occasional Offender. You slip up sometimes, but you’re aware. Growth ahead!
- Mostly C: 🔥 The Unfiltered One. Yikes! Your honesty might be hurting others. Time to hit pause before speaking.
Why It Matters
Rudeness isn’t just about “telling it like it is”—it’s about respect. Small acts of kindness go a long way in building trust and connection. If you scored low, own it and aim to adjust. If you aced the test, kudos! Either way, remember: we’re all learning.
Share your results below!
Got a high score? Own it. Got a low one? What’s one thing you’ll do differently today?
👉 P.S. Take our next quiz: “Are You a People-Pleaser or a Pushover?”
This test is for fun and self-awareness—no judgment here. Just growth!
